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23 June 2013

Seven Days - more ordinary rainbow days

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1. My entire yarn stash
2. Four year old + pink pony = happy!
3. Cheeky baby with a turkey pinwheel
4. Drawing on each other with watercolour crayons
5. New shoes (and the baby blanket is just *too* small now!)
6. A Rainbow Road
7. Dining table back in place

20 June 2013

This Child...

This daughter of mine, with her scabby elbows and knees and constant climbing of things and dancing every step she takes!
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She has put Doctor-themed post-it notes all over the house. One I found the other day said, "Tick Tock goes the clock." One by her bedside reads, "Pleas come and take me to the stars!" I found this one on my bedroom wall:
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She asked to have her hair cut short this week. Everyone keeps saying how much older she looks, but I think she looks much more like her sweet four-year-old self again! She's preparing for another show with her drama group, and rehearsing songs over and over. Here we are heading to drop her off for yet another long rehearsal. I've enjoyed packing substantial and interesting snacks for her long sessions, vegetable sticks, raisins, smoothie pouches, popcorn, and of course bags of sweets to share with the rest of the cast. :)
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We half thought that theatre classes would be an outlet for all the drama, but as much as she *loves* it we still get passionate-full-on-Jenna only now with added jazz hands. ;) Tonight's the first performance. I bet she won't be able to sleep until midnight!

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She's also quite the little gamer at the moment. She's on the verge of completing Myst Exile, loves designing levels on Big Little Planet for her sisters to enjoy, and talks non-stop about ideas for characters in the imaginary games she's going to invent some day. Wonderful, interesting, complex story telling goes on here, and lots of art work, all from an enthusiasm for a couple of computer games (I lose geek points for using dismissive vocabulary about gaming, I know)!

When did her legs get so long? When did she get so smart? No, wait, I know the answer to that last one, she has always been smart... She's really definitely not such a little girl any more, though.

18 June 2013

Simple Daybook - hanging out at home

Outside my window there is the sound of the neighbour's hedge being trimmed, reminding me that ours is well overdue a "haircut". The children are all in the garden, and I'm taking a few minutes to sit in the quiet and drink a whole cup of tea without being interrupted (maybe).

Jenna is at the top of the willow tree, bright blue tshirt and orange shorts making it easy to pick her out at a distance. Rowan has a little party of My Little Ponies on the blue pallet; she has plaited Pinkie Pie's hair and Rainbow Dash has a neat bun tied up in an elastic band. As counterpoint to this cutesy scene, Morgan is making mudpies right at the back of the garden, jumping in the puddle she has made - that's another pair of canvas shoes in need of a wash...

I am thinking that there is something really centring about a peaceful home day after a couple of very busy days out and about. 

I am thankful for wise woman friends who encourage me to grow.

In the kitchen there is a big bowl which was filled with hot buttered popcorn for snack (the favourite food of the moment) but which is now standing empty but for a couple of unpopped kernels. I put sweet potatoes in the oven to bake for tea and have chopped vegetables for ratatouille.

I am wearing a brown floor length skirt and a dark green knitted tunic dress, red shoes, and a painted slate pendant.

I am creating... um... still those red socks. But if it counts, I merrily reskeined some of my hand dyed yarn this afternoon whilst watching a couple of episodes of Warehouse 13 with a tired-out-from-long-rehearsals Jenna.

I am wondering whether Martin is aware that he took my bank card to work with him AGAIN today...

I am reading, well, I'm not reading anything at the moment actually. I just finished Mirror Wakes, which I enjoyed, but I feel like I'm waiting to be grabbed again. I have Raising Hell (
Christianity's Most Controversial Doctrine Put Under Fire) queued up to read on the computer - looks interesting.

I am looking forward to seeing Jenna perform again towards the end of the week. She's so enthusiastic about her shows with the drama club. :)

I am learning how to handle the niddy noddy so I don't get in a tangle!

Around the house: The living room is a light scattering of shoes, a discarded toddler dress, the odd few sea creatures, a baby trike, and some of Jenna's painting bits and pieces. The kitchen is still beautifully spacious and I'm loath to put the table back in again in some ways. The little flower seedlings on the window sills are getting quite big now, Rowan is so excited for them to start to flower! 

Some of my favourite things... sunlight on little-kid curls, delicious chai, stripy baby trousers, the warm damp green smell of summer rain.

A peek into my day...
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Simple Woman's Daybook

17 June 2013

Weekending: Fathers, Firsts, Fire Engines.

Another busy weekend, two days of making the most of family time. Lunch with family, a rare chance for my dad to get all of his children and grandchildren around the same table (and perhaps a first in that he didn't pay!).
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A little boy who is unbelievably ONE already. (The little cousins sweetly helped each other get up to mischief - offering a chew on the window blinds at the restaurant, throwing toys on to the floor, and copying the sitting-in-the-toybox-game.) :)

Paul and Maarja's apartment is full of interesting things - they found these antique tins on their last trip back to Estonia (where amongst other adventures Joshua apparently tried to eat a snail, as if to prove that it isn't *just* my children that do things like this).
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Walking along the wall at the church at the end of our road. Their service starts just after 11am, which is convenient for those of us who had a lie in and a fried breakfast in token acknowledgement that it was Father's Day.
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Then on to the Rescue Vehicles show; old fire engines and a chance to try out the big hoses themselves - and a Lancaster fly-past, "Just for me!" the Mister joked.
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Candyfloss for Roo. I am finding a great deal of joy and freedom in being the mama who says "yes". Yes, let's have candyfloss, yes, you can wear three outfits layered crazily, yes let's have popcorn for dinner, yes, let's get out Christmas decorations and have a party! :)

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16 June 2013

Seven Days - more everyday happiness

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1. Jumping
2. Truffles (Jenna made for Martin)
3. Wheel
4. Park in the rain
5. Custom colours
6. Carrots on my kitchen window sill
7. Saturday morning breakfast

15 June 2013

(More) Things You Never Thought You'd Say Before You Had Kids

"Yes, there IS a little yellow slug in your tap shoe. Go shake it out, then!"

"Look out for your sister, it's not kind to kick her in the head when she's sleeping."

"Take that mummified dog off your dad's dinner, please."

"Talia baby, can you take the plant outside? Thank you!"

"Where is that burning smell coming from? Do you *have* to make potions in the kitchen?!"

"Dog water is for dogs. Get your face out of that bowl!"

"These packets of pants don't belong to us, they belong to the shop. Kindly take your hands OUT of the pants."


14 June 2013

Wet Picnic

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The Arboretum is one of our favourite places to take a walk to, and it's a nice easy walk from our house (it takes me about fifteen minutes alone, though once children are factored in it's closer to 45 minutes). We arranged to meet Em and Connor for a picnic, and, well, I wouldn't say we exactly picked the best day for it...

On the way there, the weather was mostly cool and breezy, with the sun just shining on us often enough that we thought we probably wouldn't need our coats. Alas, just as we got there the rain began in earnest...

So sad - a wet Bookcrossing book left on the park!
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Walking around and enjoying the old trees wasn't terribly appealing in the rain, but the children cannot possibly turn down a good play area no matter how wet. We weren't the only families mad enough to brave it, for once, though all the parents had that weary "why us" expression as the rain got heavier and heavier.

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The constantly-hungry (and very wet) children were keen to have hot chocolate and chips in the community cafe even after the amount of picnic they consumed.

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On the way home the storm began in earnest; near simultaneous thunder and lightening, and large hail stones bouncing right up off the pavement, so we were drenched! It was still a fairly warm day, so not all that uncomfortable apart from the odd stinging hailstone.

I pay lip service to getting out in all weathers and needing time outside, but we rarely more than pop into the garden when it's this wet. It was really not as bad as my usual reluctance to get cold and wet would suggest. I'm not sure the kids will be keen to repeat the wettest picnic we have ever had, though!

I'm so glad I packed waterproof coats - the baby slept all the way home, warm and dry cocooned in her snowsuit (and the sling). :)

12 June 2013

Yarn Along: stacks of books at my bedside :)

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Knitting: I just finished turning the heel on the Toots socks. They're lovely, and coming along nice and quickly (so satisfying to knit little things). I'm not being very perfectionist about remembering where I am with the lace bit, oh gosh, I can't keep my eye on the pattern with our days being as busy as they are and as soon as I put them down I'm lost!

Reading: I got The Long Earth over the weekend and read it in one sitting. I had read a lot of negative reviews and decided not to bother with it, but you know, when you see these things being practically *given* away... I loved it. The only criticism I can really get behind is that this one incredible book would have easily made twenty incredible books - there is *so much* packed in there.

(I also got 2000 Kisses a Day: Gentle Parenting through ages and stages, and read that in one go too. The opposite applies - this one has been so talked up, everywhere, and I found it really simplistic and expected a bigger book somehow. I'd call it a good basic introduction to concepts.)

Oh, and I'm half way through Mirror Wakes. Guess who is doing a *lot* of reading in the garden wrapped in a big woolly cardigan this week? This is the state my bedside table is in right now!

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Sharing along with Ginny's Yarn Along again this week. :)

11 June 2013

Daybook when simplicity is pleasing and easy

Outside my window the sun is very bright, but the air is cold and fresh and there has been a light misting of rain on and off through the day. It has been a day for wandering in the garden, where the vegetable plot is looking wonderful in spite of only three beans coming up and the cat digging up the onions (EVERY year, honestly).

I am thinking it's time to go collect my two biggest girls from their mid-week club at the Church on the corner.

I am thankful for afternoon baby nap times, beautiful fluorescent yarn, being friends with my daughters, my mum's dog sitting contentedly on my feet, and popcorn.


In the kitchen there is still some paintwork left to be finished (the bits I can't reach without the step ladder, which is a terrible idea during the hours I'm in sole charge of the little ones). We have too many plug sockets - having lived for so so long with just two! The only annoyance right now is that my scales have gone missing in the great moving of boxes and it's slowing up a yarn order (and means I can't easily bake).


I am creating toddler socks - red cabled toddler socks. I have made several mistakes in the cable and lace, but I'm guessing my littlest won't notice or care, and I'm not having the kind of week that allows for perfectionism. :)


I am going to the Arboretum to meet friends this week. That's my grand plan for getting us out and about at least one more day this week without spending money!


I am wondering whether it would not have been wiser to make more cookies this afternoon when we made one giant cinnamon cookie to share. I could happily consume more cookie about now. I am also wondering whether my children are going to start showing chicken pox or not, as today is day 16 since exposure and I've conscientiously kept them away from baby and toddler groups for two weeks now.

I am reading Mirror Wakes (the second Laenan Kite book) and not getting far, with all the distractions. I can't complain, I've read two other books this week from cover to cover (mostly by staying up later than is truly sensible because I couldn't bear to put them down).


I am hoping that I can arrange some more opportunities for the children to see friends, as our restricted outings have left Jenna feeling a little lonely. My little extreme extravert...


I am looking forward to a big squishy parcel of sparkly sock yarn for dyeing. :)


I am learning, oh, quite a few things this week. Some Morse code, some 16th century history, some Norse mythology, and techniques for sock knitting and knitted amigurumi.


Around the house: the cat and the dog are warily watching each other now, uncomfortable companions while my mum is having building work done.

Morgan is emptying Jenna's leather satchel on to the floor (I'm sure that will please her sister!) and Rowan is sitting in the middle of the living room wearing only grey spotty tights. She has a crispie cake the big ones brought her back from their club. Talia is pressing the on/off button on the playstation. Excuse me while I go and remove her!

The spinning wheel in the corner of my bedroom is getting a few minutes' use every day as I figure out tension and start to figure out a good treadling speed.


I am pondering this quote from the Radical Unschooling group: "If you can only see the obstacles, then your journey won't be easy. Be like the water, finding its way around the rocks. See the openings, the possibilities." (Robin Bentley)

One of my favourite things is peanut and salted caramel ice cream. If I have just introduced you to this concept, I am *very* sorry. ;)

A peek into my day:


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The Simple Woman's Daybook

10 June 2013

Weekending: Wollaton

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We have weekends at the weekend now. The strangeness of a new routine again, and figuring out how we organise our days. Old rhythms creep back, a kind of normal reasserts itself. We spend weekends exploring, together as a family (and of course, these days, frequently ferrying Jenna to and from rehearsals for another show).

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The summer heat has changed to breezy fresh days again, sun and shadows, blue skies and grey. It's good for me to be getting so much time outside. I so easily forget that the cure for most of our bad days is simply to take our lives into the garden.

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It's going to be a while til Martin gets his first pay packet, but perhaps that too is good for us. Right when I have to choose between making life easier by throwing money at it until everything settles down, or working on creating a positive atmosphere at home and setting everything up to be simple and frugal day to day, there is no money to throw at it.

I am left with changing how I think about what we need, finding things to do for free, making up picnics and snacks from scratch, and making home as good a place to be as I can. Not being able to run away (or, for example, get a taxi in to town and buy stuff we don't need), I am instead making it nicer to be here.

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Simple is just fine, right now.

9 June 2013

Seven Days - still the choas

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1. Keeping out of the builders' way
2. Helping hands
3. Dandelion experiments
4. Space! (And a floor!)
5. Asleep with a friend
6. Getting shoes on to go out
7. Natural History connections

8 June 2013

Getting There

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What a strange week!

I think I'm getting used to Martin being out of the house so very much, in spite of the amount of mess and chaos at home the adjustment hasn't been too difficult so far. None of the little ups and downs have thrown me, the children have settled and are relaxed and happy and getting on with various interesting little projects. It's really... normal - for here, anyway.

Yesterday wasn't the most fun day, what with Talia doing a crazy all-night-feed for no reason I can fathom. But we got through it gracefully, with lots of time out in the sunny garden, bread baking, the painting of the kitchen, and The Sword in the Stone with a big bowl of popcorn. There are worse things than chaotic days on too little sleep, and it was really reassuring that the miserable/panicky/shouty mama didn't make an appearance.

I don't know what I expected. This isn't the first huge shake up we've managed to get through, one way or another. Sometimes I imagine this seamless transition and then what we actually live is months of aimless frustration and unexpected misery. Sometimes I imagine this huge impossible hurdle and then what we actually live is barely a bump in the road.

I'm not sure I can tell yet how it will be this time, with the added complications of finishing off work on the house and my business going well and Talia still refusing to walk in the same direction as everyone else when I try to take them out. (Will this be the first child I need a pushchair for?!)

At least my kitchen is getting there, eh? :)

New Words

Saturday: "bop" (stop)
Monday: "up"
Tuesday: "ummy" (yummy)
Wednesday: "more" (with sign - the first time I *ever* signed "more" to her)
Thursday: "MY" (mine)
Friday: "hat-hat!" (hot), "ma-mar" (grandma), "tar" (star), "bop-it" (stop it)

I think we are approaching the language explosion here. :)

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7 June 2013

Those Rainbow Mittens

Want the pattern? Well fine, you're getting it whether you like it or not. ;) Feedback, please, this is my first published pattern (and I'm slightly scared I might have messed up on the maths)!

Skittles Mittens
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You will need:
Approximately 100g aran weight yarn OR for stripes, six lots of 25m (27 yards): I used around 15g each colour of my own hand dyed pure merino aran: red/pink, violet, orange, bluebell, turquoise, and lime. If in doubt, always err on the side of having left-overs!
5mm double pointed needles (or equivalent circular needle for magic loop method).

Sizing:
S (M, L)
Small should fit an older child or slim adult wrist – wrist 16cm. Medium – wrist 17cm. Large – wrist 18cm. They are stretchy!

Colour notes:
For the wide rainbow stripes, change colour every fourteen rows. At the start of the second row in each colour stripe, slip the first stitch (this will be the first stitch you worked in the new colour) and then continue knitting normally, this will help the colours line up nicely and give a more seamless appearance.



Pattern:
Cast on 38 (40, 42) stitches using your preferred cast on method. (If you will be working both mittens together using the magic loop method, cast on all the stitches for mitten two next, arrange on the needles for knitting rounds, and then proceed with the instructions – on decrease rows ensure you decrease on the last stitches of *each* mitten as indicated in the pattern. I find it helpful to mark the first mitten with a stitch marker to make it easier to keep track of working the pattern stitches twice before proceeding with the next row instruction.)
Join for working in the round.

Row 1-14 – knit every stitch.
Row 15 – knit to last two stitches of (each) mitten, k2tog.
Row 16-18 – knit every stitch.
Row 19 – knit to last two stitches of (each) mitten, k2tog.

Continue in this manner – alternating three rows of plain knitting with one decrease row, and changing colours if you wish to do so – until row 51**, which will be your last decrease row. Knit a further four rows plain. If you are working the prescribed colour changes, this will also be your last row of your fourth stripe.

Mitten A:
Row 57 (change colour for stripe five, if you are following the stripe instructions) – knit every stitch
Row 58 – k4, yo, k1, yo, knit to end of row.
Row 59 – k4, yo, k3, yo, knit to end of row.
Row 60 – k4, yo, k5, yo, knit to end of row.

Continue as above, increasing the two stitches per row for each thumb section, until row 62 when you should have 9 stitches between the yarn-overs.

Row 63 – k4, p11, knit to end of row.
Row 64 – k4, cast off the 11 stitches for the thumb hole, turn your work and cast on five new stitches, turn again to the side you were working before and continue to the end of the row.

Knit every stitch for the next twenty rows, then cast off all stitches (if you are striping, this will be six plain rows to finish off your fifth colour stripe, then a 14 row stripe of your final colour).

Mitten B:
Row 57 (change colour for stripe five, if you are following the stripe instructions) – knit every stitch
Row 58 – knit to last five stitches, yo, k1, yo, k4.
Row 59 – knit to last five stitches, yo, k3, yo, k4.
Row 60 – knit to last five stitches, yo, k5, yo, k4.

Continue as above, increasing the two stitches per row for each thumb section, until row 62 when you should have 9 stitches between the yarn-overs.

Row 63 – knit to the first yo on the previous row, p11, k4.
Row 64 – knit to the first purl stitch on the previous row, cast off the 11 stitches for the thumb hole, turn your work and cast on five new stitches, turn again to the side you were working before and continue to knit the last four stitches of the row.

Knit every stitch for the next twenty rows, then cast off all stitches (if you are striping, this will be six plain rows to finish off your fifth colour stripe, then a 14 row stripe of your final colour).


Both mittens: Sew in ends, and block lightly.


Ravelry download page: download now **please note there is a mistake in the download version, and this instruction reads "until row 52, which will be your last in decrease row" - row 51 is the correct row number! :)

6 June 2013

Belated Yarn Along - ramblings, reds, new normals

I'm still in the stage of lace-pattern hatred with my Artio shawl - I just can't "see" the repeats and the short rows are messing with my head. So I've put it to one side for the time being, since the rest of life has plenty of new rhythms and adjustments and finding simple things frustrating to be getting on with. It's very strange going back to it being just me and the girls, almost all of almost every day.

My hands felt so empty over the last couple of days without any real project to get on with (oh, you know, apart from spinning - and the kitchen - and trying to keep on top of laundry and facilitate for the girls...), I ended up casting on socks: Toots by Rhian Drinkwater in heirloom tomato-coloured yarn I dyed myself.
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(This is the skein that taught me, no matter how reliable your supplier has been in the past, always ALWAYS check for skein bands. The usual three were not in place, and the skein disintegrated into evil yarnie spaghetti as soon as I tried to pull it out of the pan, so I had to hand wind the entire 100g to rescue it!)

I'm not reading much of anything either. A bit here, a bit there. Sitting at the Feet of the Rabbi Jesus, and The Celtic Wheel of the Year. The Mysterious Benedict Society with Jenna (taking chapters in turns now). Fantastic Mr Fox with Morgan.

Today has been perhaps our first day of feeling really comfortable with the new normal. So far this week Martin has managed to take the electric meter key to work one day and my bank card the next. Wednesday was a long long day, after not a lot of sleep and with so much kitchen sorting to do. So a full eight hours of sleep last night and a quiet morning in waiting for the Health Visitor (Talia's one year check, unsurprisingly fine and mostly just a chance for the Health Visitor to coo over how much they've all grown and reminisce about Morgan as a newborn)! Today so far has been just lovely.

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Joining in with Ginny and friends for another Yarn Along sharing. :)